Mr./Mrs. Right complements your life, not completes it. The first person in morning/last person at night thing is nice, but you can’t rely on that either; in real life, those giddy feelings WILL go away and what will be left is the choice you made to be with that person and the knowledge that you have that person’s back and vice versa, independent of how you feel and whatever other feelings for other people may come in the future. I’ve seen/heard where people grow into it, i’ve seen/heard where people jumped into it after a short time and it worked, i’ve seen where she initially didn’t want him and he persisted until she gave in and it worked…what i’ve gathered from it is that there’s no one way to finding the right person. My admittedly unprofessional opinion as a single man, you just have to continue being the right person and knowing who you are, your strength and flaws so that you can accept the person you decide to be with whenever you meet him/her.